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6 Things You Should Never Say In Any Of Your E-mails

Posted By admin On 30/10/2008 @ 05:27 pm In Dating Advice for Men | 1 Comment

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Want an online booty call? Here are the 6 THINGS YOU SHOULD *NEVER* SAY IN ANY OF YOUR EMAILS. (… unless you don’t want her to reply.)

EMAIL BLUNDER #1:

‘I just came across your profile’

This line has been used over and over and over again, and its dumb.

DUH! Hey genius, of course you just came across her profile, otherwise you’d never be
able to email her!

This line is lame, worn out and insincere. The BS detector goes off from a mile away with this one.

EMAIL BLUNDER #2:

‘I figure that I probably won’t hear from you, but…’

Confidence is the #1 thing which attracts women, Therefore, if you’re doing THE EXACT OPPOSITE of the thing which attracts women, you’re doing what?

REPELLING women away… usually in droves.

EMAIL BLUNDER #3:

‘I’m not what you’re looking for, but…’

Uh genius, then why are you even writing?

If you’re going to write a women who’s looking for something you’re not, do it with confidence. If you don’t make it a big deal, odds are she won’t.

You can’t email a woman thinking you’re not going to get a response. It’s the law of attraction… you keep focusing on not getting a response, guess what you end up getting?

You won’t get a response.

ALWAYS FOCUS ON YOUR DESIRED OUTOME.

ALWAYS.

EMAIL BLUNDER #4:

‘If you decide not to write me back, can you please take a minute and tell me why.’

Yeah ok. This one REALLY *wreaks* of desperation.

If you are guilty of sending this in any emails, put the book down, look yourself in the mirror, and repeat:

‘I will not be a wuss anymore.’ Then go ahead and slap yourself upside your head for being a dumbass.

Sending this to a woman IMMEDIATELY conveys you don’t have confidence, experience or understand how to spark attraction, and will almost guarantee you won’t get an online booty call.

Don’t make things harder for yourself by putting this line in your emails.

EMAIL BLUNDER #5:

‘Would you like to join our swingers group sometime?’

Ok, for real, if I even have to explain why this is so wrong… forget it.

Meeting women online is not for you. I can’t tell you why right now, but someday you’ll
understand… seriously, it’s for the best.

(… UNLESS you’re sending those emails on some ‘adult’ site, but even then — what do you think EVERY OTHER GUY IS SENDING?)

just a little something for you to think about…

EMAIL BLUNDER #6:

‘I wanted to see if there was more to you than just another pretty face’

This line wreaks of BS. Sad thing is so many guys are STILL using it.

If you’re STILL using this line in your emails, you are WAY BEHIND what many of my students are doing … and THAT’S the reason why you’re not getting the responses you’re expecting.

This line was made famous by one of my mentors David DeAngelo, and has probably been used more times than a cheap street hooker.

Getting an online booty call is easy if you just avoid these 6 things in your emails.

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