5 Steps to a Great First E-mail

“These 5 little known email hacks make it much easier to Meet Women Online”

There is one question my inbox gets filled with each week, one question I get asked over and over again from men all over the world who want to meet women online… it is:

HOW CAN YOU CREATE EMAILS THAT GET WOMEN TO RESPOND?

You’ll find out soon enough.

Today I’m going to show you exactly how it’s done. In just a minute I’m going to give you A 5-STEP FORMULA you can use to create a killer 1st email that will get you more responses than you know what to do with.

Think about this.

Most guys think their picture is the most important part of meeting women online, however nothing could be further from the truth. Sure, your picture is important… but the most important part of meeting women online is not your pictures, it’s your 1st email. If you can’t get women to respond to your emails, it doesn’t matter how great your pictures are. If you DO know how to get women to respond to your emails, then you can meet women online anytime you want.

So, the question becomes how do you get a woman interested enough to respond to you?

I’ll give you my take on it.

In most cases women are getting bombarded with DOZENS of emails each day and from what you know most of the emails are horrible and end up being deleted.

Did you know this?

I didn’t think so.

The truth is until a few years ago, I didn’t know this either.

What I’m about to teach you will (hopefully) change how you interact with women online forever and give you the power to meet the type of women you are interested in.

HERE’S TWO THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WRITING EMAILS

1. Make sure your email is NOTHING like the ones you’ve
gotten if you set up a ‘Recon’profile. Knowing what most
guys are writing will help you avoid the most common pitfalls.
Remember its all about the recon.

2. You need to create a template of something which worked
before. (The word ‘model’ might come to mind) you’re essentially
going to model something which already works, then slightly
‘tweak’ it to fit you.

As you know I’ve got this down to a science. In my program I actually show you step-by-step (in video) exactly how I craft these emails. The program contains 8 email templates for all situations, and I routinely include more updates as I test and develop new ones.

I’m going to let you in on a big secret and show you how I create these email templates right here, right now in this email. I told you I was going to give you a 5-step formula for writing killer emails.

Heres the way I’d do it:

1. Introduction

You want to make her seem like she might not be ‘average’ but you’re not sure about it. I mean lets face it, what girl wants to be AVERAGE?

“Hey, my name is ____ I read your profile, thought you seemed kind of interesting, but I’m not too sure about you… yet.”

2. Mention something funny about all the emails she’s getting. (If you set up the fake profile, use the emails as the jokes.)

This is why I wanted you to set up the fake profile. Once you get all these emails from OTHER guys, you’ll be armed to the T with material to use here. There IS a method to the madness!

3. Mention something about her profile you found interesting

This is where you’re going to *customize* the template each time for each girl. She’ll assume you sent an email just for her. If you don’t customize the email 9 times out of 10 you’ll get busted.

4. Ask her a question about something. she’ll respond essentially qualifying herself to you.

Like: favorite type of food, favorite outdoor activity, favorite music…. anything to get her involved and to answer.

5. CLOSE - Tell her something like:

You seem cool and interesting and you’d like to get together for a drink sometime.

Thats it.

Remember that.

You just saw a simple 5-step process you can use right now to get more responses than ever. The key to making this work for you is to rewrite this the way you speak. If you don’t there’s a ‘disconnect’ from the emails to the person and when she finally meets you, she’ll be expecting someone else.

That is the reason why giving you something specific won’t work. When I did just straight up swiped David d’s emails, yes I got responses and everything went fine when we were ON-line — but guess what happened when we went OFF-line?

When I met these women they were all expecting someone else — NOT me!

I used to hear the women say: ‘I was expecting you to be different…’

(Yeah thats what you want to hear when you meet someone you may be interested in. NOT!)

Guess what?

I blew it with each and every one of them until I realized that I had to take the material and make it my own. Once I did, my results went through the roof!

I want you to do the same as well. Take what I teach you and make it your own. Turn it into your own personality, add your own words and add your own flair to it.

THEN you will start to enjoy a massive amount of success meeting women online.

Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals sites — using an embarrassingly simple, dummy proof, internet dating ‘routine’ that works nearly every time. He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at http://www.insiderinternetdating.com

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