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7 killer tips to help you write emails women read and respond to

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

insiderinternetdating2.jpeg“These 7 email tips make getting an Online Booty Call a Piece of Cake”

According to various internet statistics, there are over 50 million active subscribers to dating services. That’s just in the U.S. alone.

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On the surface it seems rather easy…

Post a quick profile, add a few pictures, do a search for some hotties, find a few then fire off a few emails and line up your dates. Unfortunately it’s not quite that easy.

Arguably the biggest hurdle most guys have to overcome is that very FIRST email. I get emails daily from guys asking exactly what they should put in their emails so they get read and responded to.

Because of my direct marketing background, and being a fanatical tester of what works and what doesn’t work, I’ve been able to isolate several key factors which should always be present when you’re communicating to a woman online.

More about those in a minute…

Before we get to them, let’s talk about something even more important to your success in writing compelling emails.

WHAT’S GOING ON IN HER HEAD?

No, I’m not asking you to read her mind… Not that you could, but what I am asking you to do is to put yourself in HER shoes.

Attractive women are getting BOMBARDED with emails each and every day, more often than not these women are getting the same lame emails guys send.

The more successful you are at putting yourself in a woman’s shoes who is using the internet to meet guys, the more successful you’ll be in getting women to respond to your emails.

It sounds simple but it’s true.

The more sensitive you are to what she’s going through, the more persuasive you can be, the more rapport you can have with her, and consequently, the more she’ll trust and agree with you.

Put yourself in the shoes of a woman who’s being bombarded with emails daily from men.

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When you’re trying to spark interest with a woman you meet online, you need to create
rapport, a great way is to ‘make yourself like her’.

What common interests do you share?

Was there something in her profile that caught your eye?

You shouldn’t forget that with email, people generally see it as more private/personal
than your profile… people know that a profile is written for everyone to see.

When you send an email, the perception is that it should be personal, because emails
typically are personal in nature. Therefore, use this to your advantage.

It’s absolutely critical you write as if you’re speaking to ONLY HER. Don’t speak AT her,
or TO her, speak with her, just like you’re talking to a friend.

Some keys to emails that get women to reply:

1. PERSONALIZE

You MUST personalize every message you send out. Women have a BS detector and
can smell a copy and paste email a mile away. Even if you just use her screen name
1 time, make it personal.

Talk about her profile, let her know in some way that you actually READ her profile.

2. COMPLIMENT

Compliment her on something you find interesting about her or her profile (you did read it, didn’t you?) … something you’re intrigued about. Remember the best way to get someone interested in you is to become interested in them first.

I have this 2 step system I use which does just that called:

3. ENGAGE & EXPAND.

Rather than tell you all about it, here’s a quick example:

To ENGAGE, you can say something such as:

‘I read you’re into _____ Thats really cool.’

Then you EXPAND on it by adding:

‘I’ve always been interested in _____, how long have you been into it?’

This is very simple, but VERY VERY effective.

4. AN INTRIGUING SUBJECT LINE

What’s the very first thing a woman sees when you send her an email?

No, it’s not your photo, no it’s not your email… it’s your subject line. What you place in that subject line is critical to your email even getting open. If your email doesn’t get opened, all that time you spent to craft that killer email was all for nothing.

The subject line should create intrique and almost force the woman to want to open it… because it’s compelling.

Women will tend to open emails if they’re more conversational in style and more personal, rather than generic.

5. HOW TO ENSURE YOUR EMAIL GETS READ

One thing I do almost all the time is to look through your own inbox and seeing the subject lines which stand out to you. Which ones capture your attention IMMEDIATELY?

In your subject lines mention something unique about her profile. For instance… If she’s into shooting pool, your subject could be something like:

‘Hey [her screen name], so you think you can shoot pool?’

“pool shark?’

6. WHAT DO YOU SAY FIRST?

The first sentance is arguably the part most guys have the biggest problems with. If the
subject is the most important part of the email itself, then the 1st sentence is the most important part of the body.

The goal of your first sentence should be to introduce yourself and to estabilish rapport. Start by saying something you’d say to a friend.

Make sure your emails are written in a conversational style… like you’re emailing
a friend of yours. You can ALWAYS tell when someone’s sending a copy and paste email… because the email is usually very ambiguous and says nothing specific about that woman’s profile.

7. THEN WHAT?

You have an intriguing subject line, an inviting first sentance, used some humor in
the email, and now you’ve got to seal the deal.

This is where you need to insert a CTA. This stands for Call To Action. Simply put, what
do you want the woman to do as a result of reading the email?

Answer that question and you have your CTA.

I have a rule with each step in my system: Every step only has ONE CTA. This is where most guys mess things up. They give women too many options, or none at all.

Tell the woman what you want her to do next, you can say something like…

‘Read the email and get back to me…’

‘I’ll be looking for your response’

‘let’s see your answers to the questions…’

There you have it. 7 KILLER tips to help you write introduction emails women read and respond to.

Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals — using an embarrassingly simple, dummy proof, internet dating ‘routine’ that works nearly every time. He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/

6 Things You Should Never Say In Any Of Your E-mails

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

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Want an online booty call? Here are the 6 THINGS YOU SHOULD *NEVER* SAY IN ANY OF YOUR EMAILS. (… unless you don’t want her to reply.)

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EMAIL BLUNDER #1:

‘I just came across your profile’

This line has been used over and over and over again, and its dumb.

DUH! Hey genius, of course you just came across her profile, otherwise you’d never be
able to email her!

This line is lame, worn out and insincere. The BS detector goes off from a mile away with this one.

EMAIL BLUNDER #2:

‘I figure that I probably won’t hear from you, but…’

Confidence is the #1 thing which attracts women, Therefore, if you’re doing THE EXACT OPPOSITE of the thing which attracts women, you’re doing what?

REPELLING women away… usually in droves.

EMAIL BLUNDER #3:

‘I’m not what you’re looking for, but…’

Uh genius, then why are you even writing?

If you’re going to write a women who’s looking for something you’re not, do it with confidence. If you don’t make it a big deal, odds are she won’t.

You can’t email a woman thinking you’re not going to get a response. It’s the law of attraction… you keep focusing on not getting a response, guess what you end up getting?

You won’t get a response.

ALWAYS FOCUS ON YOUR DESIRED OUTOME.

ALWAYS.

EMAIL BLUNDER #4:

‘If you decide not to write me back, can you please take a minute and tell me why.’

Yeah ok. This one REALLY *wreaks* of desperation.

If you are guilty of sending this in any emails, put the book down, look yourself in the mirror, and repeat:

‘I will not be a wuss anymore.’ Then go ahead and slap yourself upside your head for being a dumbass.

Sending this to a woman IMMEDIATELY conveys you don’t have confidence, experience or understand how to spark attraction, and will almost guarantee you won’t get an online booty call.

Don’t make things harder for yourself by putting this line in your emails.

EMAIL BLUNDER #5:

‘Would you like to join our swingers group sometime?’

Ok, for real, if I even have to explain why this is so wrong… forget it.

Meeting women online is not for you. I can’t tell you why right now, but someday you’ll
understand… seriously, it’s for the best.

(… UNLESS you’re sending those emails on some ‘adult’ site, but even then — what do you think EVERY OTHER GUY IS SENDING?)

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EMAIL BLUNDER #6:

‘I wanted to see if there was more to you than just another pretty face’

This line wreaks of BS. Sad thing is so many guys are STILL using it.

If you’re STILL using this line in your emails, you are WAY BEHIND what many of my students are doing … and THAT’S the reason why you’re not getting the responses you’re expecting.

This line was made famous by one of my mentors David DeAngelo, and has probably been used more times than a cheap street hooker.

Getting an online booty call is easy if you just avoid these 6 things in your emails.

Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals — using an embarrassingly simple, dummy proof, internet dating ‘routine’ that works nearly every time. He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/

5 Steps to a Great First E-mail

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

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There is one question my inbox gets filled with each week, one question I get asked over and over again from men all over the world who want to meet women online… it is:

HOW CAN YOU CREATE EMAILS THAT GET WOMEN TO RESPOND?

You’ll find out soon enough.

Today I’m going to show you exactly how it’s done. In just a minute I’m going to give you A 5-STEP FORMULA you can use to create a killer 1st email that will get you more responses than you know what to do with.

Think about this.

Most guys think their picture is the most important part of meeting women online, however nothing could be further from the truth. Sure, your picture is important… but the most important part of meeting women online is not your pictures, it’s your 1st email. If you can’t get women to respond to your emails, it doesn’t matter how great your pictures are. If you DO know how to get women to respond to your emails, then you can meet women online anytime you want.

So, the question becomes how do you get a woman interested enough to respond to you?

I’ll give you my take on it.

In most cases women are getting bombarded with DOZENS of emails each day and from what you know most of the emails are horrible and end up being deleted.

Did you know this?

I didn’t think so.

The truth is until a few years ago, I didn’t know this either.

What I’m about to teach you will (hopefully) change how you interact with women online forever and give you the power to meet the type of women you are interested in.

HERE’S TWO THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WRITING EMAILS

1. Make sure your email is NOTHING like the ones you’ve
gotten if you set up a ‘Recon’profile. Knowing what most
guys are writing will help you avoid the most common pitfalls.
Remember its all about the recon.

2. You need to create a template of something which worked
before. (The word ‘model’ might come to mind) you’re essentially
going to model something which already works, then slightly
‘tweak’ it to fit you.

As you know I’ve got this down to a science. In my program I actually show you step-by-step (in video) exactly how I craft these emails. The program contains 8 email templates for all situations, and I routinely include more updates as I test and develop new ones.

I’m going to let you in on a big secret and show you how I create these email templates right here, right now in this email. I told you I was going to give you a 5-step formula for writing killer emails.

Heres the way I’d do it:

1. Introduction

You want to make her seem like she might not be ‘average’ but you’re not sure about it. I mean lets face it, what girl wants to be AVERAGE?

“Hey, my name is ____ I read your profile, thought you seemed kind of interesting, but I’m not too sure about you… yet.”

2. Mention something funny about all the emails she’s getting. (If you set up the fake profile, use the emails as the jokes.)

This is why I wanted you to set up the fake profile. Once you get all these emails from OTHER guys, you’ll be armed to the T with material to use here. There IS a method to the madness!

3. Mention something about her profile you found interesting

This is where you’re going to *customize* the template each time for each girl. She’ll assume you sent an email just for her. If you don’t customize the email 9 times out of 10 you’ll get busted.

4. Ask her a question about something. she’ll respond essentially qualifying herself to you.

Like: favorite type of food, favorite outdoor activity, favorite music…. anything to get her involved and to answer.

5. CLOSE – Tell her something like:

You seem cool and interesting and you’d like to get together for a drink sometime.

Thats it.

Remember that.

You just saw a simple 5-step process you can use right now to get more responses than ever. The key to making this work for you is to rewrite this the way you speak. If you don’t there’s a ‘disconnect’ from the emails to the person and when she finally meets you, she’ll be expecting someone else.

That is the reason why giving you something specific won’t work. When I did just straight up swiped David d’s emails, yes I got responses and everything went fine when we were ON-line — but guess what happened when we went OFF-line?

When I met these women they were all expecting someone else — NOT me!

I used to hear the women say: ‘I was expecting you to be different…’

(Yeah thats what you want to hear when you meet someone you may be interested in. NOT!)

Guess what?

I blew it with each and every one of them until I realized that I had to take the material and make it my own. Once I did, my results went through the roof!

I want you to do the same as well. Take what I teach you and make it your own. Turn it into your own personality, add your own words and add your own flair to it.

THEN you will start to enjoy a massive amount of success meeting women online.

Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals sites — using an embarrassingly simple, dummy proof, internet dating ‘routine’ that works nearly every time. He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at http://www.insiderinternetdating.com

Dating's harder for older women

Tuesday, October 28th, 2008

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In its prime, The Single Gourmet catered to a younger clientele than in September when the Hampton Roads singles’ dining club met its demise.

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In the beginning, Gourmet owner Ethel-Raye Greenspan of Norfolk says a 65-year-old member of the group would have been “old.”

Today, she says, “it’s not.”

The change in the club’s make-up may be related to Greenspan herself, who was 50 when she started the club. She’s 71 now.

“As I got older, my members got older,” says Greenspan, who is divorced, adding that Single Gourmet chapters “sort of take on the personality and temperament of the person who’s running it.”

But demographics also figure in the mix as older Americans, defined as 65 and older, flood the market and for some women interested in finding love, that’s not promising.

According to “A Profile of Older Americans: 2007,” in 2006, older women outnumbered older men at 21.6 million older women to15.7 million older men, for a sex ratio of 138 women for every 100 men. The report was developed by the Administration on Aging, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Nor is there to be any slowdown of the graying of America.

The report also predicts that the population of people 65 and older will increase from the 2000 figure of 35 million to 40 million in 2010, a 15 percent increase, and to 55 million in 2020, a 36 percent increase for that decade.

And while a woman who is 65 grew up corresponding on a typewriter rather than a computer, don’t think for a minute that she isn’t turning to the Internet to find Mr. Right.

Jean Sullender, 66, of Chesapeake tried Match.com. In hindsight, she says the man she met online wasn’t very truthful about himself. She later had a relationship with a man she met through eharmony.com.

Sullender joined The Single Gourmet and didn’t meet anyone to date but did make some friends.

She joined another singles club for which she had an interview and said what she was looking for in a match. She wondered whether the club had enough men in her age group.

“Is there a pool to draw from?” she wanted to know.

She was “ssured there was an equal number of men and women but didn’t find that to be so.

Once you’ve passed your 50s, she says, the men her age are looking for women 45 to 55.

Sullender wants somebody her own age but says that even an online photo in which you don’t look your age doesn’t help.

“All they look at is the age,” she says. “That’s the deal breaker.”

Sullender also tried speed dating. In this a type of event, singles sign up for their age group and gathering go from person to person to talk for a few minutes. Sullender didn’t find a pool of men past 60 from which to draw.

“If I go to ‘senior’ groups, I’m too young — everybody’s 10 years older. If I go to other single groups, I’m too old,” Sullender says.

“For women, you just fall in a hole once you get to 60.”

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Gay Dating Advices : Why Gay Social Networking is So Effective

Tuesday, October 28th, 2008

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Now your pool for dating and socializing has been immediately restricted to people ONLY looking for the same things that you are. Imagine how much easier it would be if you were to walk into a mall or a bar and immediately be made aware of who in that throng of people were looking for the same things as you were? You will never get this option in the real world. And you will never even have this option using one of the biggest social networking sites. But if you are using gay social networking sites, you are immediately presented with a huge pool of people that are there for exactly the same reasons you are. Your pool is narrowed immediately, and you just won’t find that anywhere else in the world, online, or offline.

Time commitments are a huge reason why many people are going to social networking for their dating needs. It is easier and less time consuming to browse profiles, instant message, and connect with people that have the same interests. With gay social networking, your time commitment is minimal, as that step you have to take to search for gays or lesbians is immediately removed. There they are all right in front of you for you to browse and connect with whenever you want. When was the last time you met someone you were interested in on a coffee break at work? During the commercial on your favourite TV program? While you were playing co-pilot on a long road trip? Now you can do it all with gay social networking.

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Top 3 Russian dating services

Tuesday, October 28th, 2008

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All these Russian dating services offer a wide range of additional services, such as gifts, phone calls, translation, romantic tours and so on. Also read the Russian, foreign brides scam alert.

I wish you success in your searches!

Fake millionaire scammer headed to state prison

Tuesday, October 28th, 2008

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Krueger, 50, who has former addresses in Souderton, Telford and Hatfield, pleaded guilty Friday in Montgomery County Court to one count of felony theft charges for scamming victims out of $100,000, which he then gambled away at Atlantic City casinos. Judge Thomas C. Branca accepted the recommendation of the prosecution and defense and sentenced Krueger to three to seven years at the State Correctional Institution at Graterford.

Krueger was also ordered to repay the 13 victims of his scam a total of $100,000, something the prosecutor said Krueger likely will be unable to do. Had not the prosecution and defense negotiated Krueger’s guilty plea by dropping some charges and consolidating others, the con man could have faced a maximum sentence of 174 years in prison if convicted on all counts, his lawyer, Chief Public Defender Stephen Heckman, explained to his client during Friday’s hearing. The judge also sentenced Krueger to a concurrent sentence of 2 1/2 to 5 years in prison for violating the terms of his probation from a similar crime he pleaded guilty to in 2006. In the most recent crime, he’d met his victims on an Internet dating site called MillionaireMatch.com, which describes itself as “the first, most effective and largest site in the world to connect with, date, marry successful, beautiful people.

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”Krueger passed himself off as a Grammy nominated sound engineer in the recording industry who was looking for investors. Some of the women, who lived in various parts of the country, had friends who also invested in Krueger’s nonexistent business. In all, 13 people gave Krueger between $500 and $20,000 for a total of $100,000. “All the money was lost in the casinos,” said Assistant District Attorney Robert J. Sander, who heads the economic crime unit. “Mr. Krueger had a bad gambling habit. All the money’s gone. He was essentially homeless and living on the streets of Atlantic City when he was arrested.” Although Krueger was ordered to begin repaying his victims when released from prison, Sander said, “He probably is never going to make restitution. You can’t get blood from a stone, and he doesn’t have anything. When he gets out of prison, we’ll see what happens.” Most Popular and Safe Millionaire Dating Sites

Passion.com Delivers HOT chat

Monday, October 20th, 2008

passionI found Passion.com this week and added my profile there as well. This site has even more members in my area than AmateurMatch!

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Match.com Launches Consumer Dating Panel

Monday, October 20th, 2008

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Its first task is to compile an “insider’s guide” to online dating, drawing on and sharing their own experiences.

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Jason Stockwood, international managing director for match.com, says: “The ‘match100’ is a vocal, diverse group of all ages from across the nation and their opinions and experiences will make a huge impact on our business.”

He adds that the new panel will help the site continue to provide members with the best possible chance of finding love by listening to customers’ feedback and continually improving the site, which launched in 2001, and its services.

Christian Dating Service

Monday, October 20th, 2008

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If you are a religious follower of Jesus and are also a single male or female looking for your soul mate or spouse but don’t know where to start, then you should consider the path of a Christian dating service.

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These services allow you to choose a date from fellow Christians in your area or around the world. There are many different styles of services for Christian dating and this article will go over some of them to guide you in which one will work best for you.

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There are actually specific online dating sites that specialize in setting up Christians with other Christians around he globe or nation. These sites, if paid subscription is necessary, are some of the most secure sites out there. They protect you against identity theft and fraud. These sites have very small if not no sexual content in them. This means you will not be tempted while visiting them and can enjoy a sex free environment. You don’t have to worry about the kids looking over your shoulder and thinking you are doing a bad thing! These sites are perfectly family friendly and safe!

The representative interview service

These are not necessarily considered a Christian dating service but can aid you in that direction. When you go to one of these services you are interviewed by a representative of the company, and then he complies a profile based on what you say during the interview. Now, he can right that you prefer a date to be Christian and he will look for dates that are Christian more than others. The problem with these dating services is that they can miss a lot of people that you would date regardless of their religion.

Church

This is the basic and biggest Christian dating service there is available. If you find that online dating services and representative interviews not your thing, the best way to go is to church. In a church you are comfortable with your surroundings and you are able to talk to everyone their without feeling like a loner. If you are going to use a Christian dating service I would recommend starting at your local church. If that fails, which it most likely won’t because a lot of people meet future spouses at church, then you should consider going to another Christian dating service.

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